Okay, I read all this and got pretty out.....
So my opinion: Abortion should be avoided as much as possible, unless there is a risk of harm to the mother &/or baby. Usually the mother should make the decision, but it's not always necessary. She must be consulted, of course.....but if she is unable to make the decision due to medical or emotional reasons (like in cases of trauma from rape; it can happen), then the family or close friend (whoever she has got) should make the decision. But overall; abortion is wrong ethically, morally, emotionally, physically, even grammatically (i just don't like the word...) wrong!