none of the above. fear too many hints have already steered folks away from the answer. here's a little more info, tho -
REREWRITE
When it first dawns on you
However taxing it may feel
A little shot of encouragement
Take it from me will help you deal
Where all is safe and sound
Comfort I afford, complete
Shouldn't have to spill the beans
For I know you can take the heat
Yes, it could be hard to handle
But you had better get a grip
Or else you might have me to face
Hold on, I ain't no drip
Just try and contain that anxiousness
Sometimes it's best to linger
So now it's time you understood
And on me you must place your finger