1. Be the person you want yourself to be, even if the rest of the world doesn't.
2. Choose relationships that help you be the person you want to be, not that hold you back.
3. [Generally] it's better to regret having done something than to regret having done nothing.
4. (This is related to my theory of 'social calculus', which I may expound on in a future thread) Judge a person not on who they are, but on who they are becoming.
And some quotes that I feel define parts of it:
I have often thought that the best way to define a man's character would be to seek out the particular mental or moral attitude in which, when it came upon him, he felt himself most deeply and intensely active and alive. At such moments there is a voice inside which speaks and says: "This is the real me!"
-William James
Hello Mr. Yesterday,
Use your time machine,
Ask the me of the past,
Who often spoke of dreams,
In those shining of eyes of yours,
Do you see the me of today?
Lyrics to Hello Mr. Yesterday, Hundred Percent Free
What are yours?






