Gazza,
If you perceive silence from the "1/3 crowd", you might consider the possibility
that it's not because you have persuaded them - they may have just concluded
that you're impervious to logic.
It's more convincing to post proofs than it is to hint, for example, that it's not about
logic, anyway, but about semantics. You might even try to say what that means.
For starters ... your statement in red above.
Can you give a counter-example? Show a case where both "one" and "the other"
of two children are female, but it's not the case that they both are girls.