There are two aspects.1] We are confusing
sequential events with
simultaneous events.
If we toss a coin, the probability of getting a head is 1/2. If we toss
two coins together, the probability of getting 2 heads is 1/3 (3 possibilities, head-head, tail-tail and head-tail), but if we toss them one at a time, the probability of getting head each time is 1/2. If we get head the first time, it does not affect the probability of head in the second coin tossed separately!
If we toss a collection of coins
simultaneously, the chance of getting half of them head is 1/2. But if we toss each coin from a collection
sequentially, the chance of each being head is half, and is not influenced by the number of heads in the other coins.
As we are not dealing with twins (simultaneous events), the probability of each being a girl or a boy (born separately or sequentially) is 1/2.
Seeing them separately or together has no influence on actual birth!
Now if the problem was like this:
We have 6 girls and 6 boys in a room. They are walking out of the room one by one. The first is a girl. What are the chances of the second walking out... Then the author's logic is ok.
In a population of girls and boys,
unless it is specified that there are equal number of girls and boys, we cannot assume it! So if a family has 5 girls, what are the chances the last one born is a boy? 1/2!! (some may argue the chance of boy is even less!)
Coming back to our current problem, in a married couple, nowhere it is mentioned the children are twins.
2] Now I am going to point out the
flaw in the answer provided:
The following are possible combinations of two children that form a sample space in any earthly family:
Girl - Girl
Girl - Boy
Boy - Girl
Boy - Boy
Observe 2nd and 3rd options (Girl - Boy, Boy - Girl) indicate a sequence (1st child and 2nd child), otherwise both are the same!
A permutation is taken, not a combination! In that case, if the first is girl, there exist only the first two options - probability is 1/2!
If you are really talking about combination, then the following three (not four) exists:
Girl - Girl
Girl - Boy
Boy - Boy
If you take out the last, only two possibilities remains!
I do not know why nobody observed this earlier.
[You cannot combine permutation and combination as it pleases you - you must select one or the other].